So What Can We Do?

This post originally appeared here. It’s getting ugly out there, isn’t it? Dark. A lot of us, myself included, are walking around with our hands held up, helpless. Hate is matching in the streets. What can we do? Nuclear war is on the table. What can we do? It’s hard when you feel helpless. We […]

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From Shard to Sea: the Evolution of Grief

It’s been a while since I sat down and wrote to you all about my grief. Usually I consider that a victory, a sign that I am healing and moving forward and living a regular-person life, but I would be lying if I didn’t say that too there are times when I worry that I’m […]

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Let’s Talk a Little About Privilege

I saw an old friend the other night. Not a “friend” in the soul-baring coming of age together kind of way, but rather “friend” as in a person we spent quite a bit of time partying with back in what I tend to think of as our poor years. They were fun years too. We […]

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Lessons on Losing a Friend

I used to work with a woman who hated me. HATED ME. There’s an expression in the online world, B*tch Eating Crackers. BEC for short because life is much too busy to be insulting people in full actual words. Anyway what it means is that you dislike a person so much that they could be […]

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